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Soul Therapy This is adapted from Chase Hughes’ What it Feels like to SEE INTO People video.

Bad behaviour masks suffering.

The Childhood Debugging Triangle

• Friends: Need = “Will I be loved?” Answer = “By Jesus’ one perfect sacrifice, He made us perfectly holy and complete for all time!” — Hebrews 10:14 TPT.
• Safety: Need = “Will I be OK?” Answer = “No weapon formed against you will prosper” — Isaiah 54:17 NIV.
• Reward: Need = “Will I be chosen?” Answer = “God made a choice before the creation of the world that we agree with and in Him that we are holy and blameless in His sight” — Ephesians 1:4 NIV.

Whenever your reactive bad behaviour, even inner, is bigger than the situation:

• 1. Ask out loud: “Who is it inside of me that is trying to be loved, safe or chosen?”
• 2. Wait for an inner and/or outward response from a younger version of you.
• 3. Reply using the associated answer above for each need.